White Violet Press, 2012
Perfect bound, 98 pages
Reviewed by Leah Rosenzweig
That bullying and public exposure are often bound together is seen in “Somewhere,” the seamless villanelle that closes “Public,” the book’s first section. A compressed and poignant reiteration of the book’s opening six poems, “Somewhere” brings to life the horrific news stories of teen suicides, with despair’s self-destructive impulse set against the bully’s typical rationalizations: “…they were just playing/or making group dynamics manageable.” Both bully and bullied step from front-page headline into sharp focus: “It changes everything: public displaying/Of someone else’s shame. Now vulnerable,/Somewhere in the dark you’ll hear the crying.//And it is not a game… /Somewhere, by his own hand, a teen is dying.” Through direct language and command of form, Bridgford captures the risks and repercussions of thoughtless shaming.
The section entitled “Private” extends a sort of private invitation. Bridgford recalls family dynamics, her days as a school girl, and first encounters with regulations, evil, and sensuality; she does so in a variety of forms, ranging from long-lined free verse to well-wrought sonnets and villanelles. In “Ruined People,” Bridgford’s voice unwinds, elastic in its fluency as she posits scenarios of women like herself in many ways—women trampled upon, not all of them restored to confidence like the author. Carefully placing herself in the poem, Bridgford is both sympathetic and confessional: “I’ve been there too, been bullied like that,/And it’s both intimate and general, like someone’s/Kicked you in the teeth, and forgotten who/You are. If Eden is in us, then so is hell. And this was at work.” Such private poems speak to universal experience. As Bridgford notes ruefully, “It’s the smallness in the end that does you in./When you are young, bad reaches out from the side of the lame/And grabs you, or cuts the silk out of your life,/But later people say, ‘You do what we say or else.’”
The closing section provides an unexpected turn into new realms. “Mythological,” divided into five subsections, expands on themes of power, manipulation, and weakness as reflected in characters from literature, myth, and movies. With the exception of a series of poems about Persephone, this section is composed almost entirely of dramatic monologues which shed light on the tragedies that result from coercion and force. Desdemona’s voice, for instance, rings with a sharp, painful plea, “Don’t smother me with anger. Let me go./My handkerchief, sewn sweet with light and berries,/Is more than gift to me; it is what buries.” The final poem of this unique and powerful book offers a reminder that even these mythological poems, regardless of their original vocabulary or the era of their source, embody the dynamics, and tragedy, of bullying.
Kim Bridgford’s words erupt from these pages with controlled force, as each poem finds its way, explicitly or indirectly, into our backyards, our playgrounds, and our shopping malls. Bully Pulpit aches with painful relevance: it is a book both public and deeply personal, one that speaks up for the vulnerable while asking us to speak out, too, as seen in the closing lines of a powerful villanelle: “Someone inside the group is isolated/If you don’t speak the cycle is repeated” (“Watching”).
Leah Rosenzweig is a recent graduate of Loyola University Maryland. She is currently living in Washington DC, pursuing a career in the nonprofit sector. Leah was a 2009 recipient of 5 gold key awards in poetry from the Alliance for Young Artists and Writers.